Manjana, in French we say: "Arrête de te prendre la tête!", meaning you're making a fuss for no reason...
I understand that you are quite a sensitive person (wow, I didn't expect that from a German... JUST KIDDING!!), but here everything's cool...
Bandit is a very nice person (for an administrator
), and I haven't seen a single insult, spammer, or trouble-maker of any kind since I'm here (ok, there are people that are just a bit nuts, like Napoleon and Chip lol), and if sometimes the comments of TC, Earthworm or Kris are a bit harsh (I'm saying this probably 'cause I'm jealous you guys got THE POWER...lol), I'm sure they are very nice persons as well...
So relax!
Du brauchst nicht "Verzaiung" oder "Entschuldigung Sir" immer zu sagen...
Wir sind eine grosse Wing Commander Familie, after all...